The lessons in love.

Making their life becomes happier with you in it”. Owen Fitzpatrick

 Real love makes me want to help that person be happier or reach their true potential and a large part of that is unconditional.

 Finding real love in life is a tricky business, and becomes a more complex task the older we get. I think people go one of the two ways. The older either they get the more expert they become at relationship games or thus self-preservation or they learn from each relationship they have had and so become closer to meeting their real love.

 Too many people are attracted to the wrong person because the pain they experience feeds a subconscious need within themselves to be hurt.

Unbalanced and volatile relationship creates such highs and lows that people become deluded and believe they are experiencing profound love.

when things go wrong, the union with the person can bring you intense pain, it yearns and aches and makes you feel and nothing and no one can make you feel better until that per is back in your arms again. Unrequited love carries the most joy and the most acute suffering.

 This type of irrational passion inspired some of the world’s greatest songs and poems but it is a farce. Its not love. Not real love I think the concept of real love will remain a mystery to most people in favour of the excitement of unbalanced relationships. Real love does not destroy, it nourishes

Real love between two souls is the highest form of love. It if you learn from the hurt of past unions it will enable you to recognize real love and potentially your soul mate.

When you find this person, you are aware of each other’s needs, desires and feeling at a level that is hard to imagine. It has nothing to do with selfishness but substance. Your soul mate knows you and understands you on a level that no one ever has done and they love you despite your weaknesses. Soul mates do not impress each other with superficial talents but admire each other’s similar pathway in life. Real love is when both partners know and understand each other as if they know and understand themselves.

If you imagine for a minute how great life would be if you found a love like that, it is worth putting the work in do not you think?